Thirteen Steps to Educate children



To educate children well is very necessary because children is an asset or the puture.people must know to educate them by using the following steps such as elow :

1. Be gentle and show genuine affection As a parent always be gentle to children is an absolute thing that must be done. Because only a soft-spoken, a child will listen to the words of his parents. Apart from being required to be gentle to children, parents also should provide genuine affection and intact to the child. One example is to tell the child that you are very fond of her. A hug or a kiss could also be encouraging its own for the soul of the child that you can do.

 2. Be a good listener and provide support Your child might have felt at the ridicule by peers. As a good parent, try to make an approach for the child tells. At such times you are required to become a good listener and able to listen to all the little sigh and moan. This is the key to success in building self-confidence of the child. Give positive support and bekalilah it with his skill to avoid ridicule and the ability to be able to socialize well. For example, you can teach your child to avoid a mockery of friends. For example if there are friends who say "You're ugly", then the most appropriate answer is "important Biarin clever". Children who used to mock will definitely feel bored with answers such as put-downs are not taken seriously and not getting feedback, according to what he wants, for example, by crying, complaining or angry. 

 3. Build creativity by playing together Teach children not mean to always make the "new rules" are not fun for him, but also can be a way to play together. Let him learn something from you in ways far more fun as playing, dancing or playing music together. 

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 4. Avoid using the word "Do not" This is one of the mistakes that are often made by the parents. In the current experiment middle child who may be a little dangerous, parents generally say "no" to their children. Indeed, if the word is too often spoken by parents to their children can actually have negative consequences that cause the child does not develop their creativity. 

To replace the word "no", you should use another word that significantly more positive. A case such as a child running, then her mother said, "Do not run!". Indeed, the intended mother is the "walk" only but the child does not catch this purpose. So the phrase that should be used is the "Walking alone" or "Slow down," and so forth. Another alternative of words not often spoken of parents to their children Another alternative table of the word "do not" used to say parents to their children

 5. Be a role model and idol for your child In general, every child has the idol "superhero" the world's imagination. But in the real world, he would want to have it. You as a parent as much as possible try to be what the child wants and always dependable. One way is to do whatever you think is best to be given to your child.

 6. Provide a sense of comfort Cultivate a sense of comfort when a child is being shared with you. Bring to a small discussion on the sidelines of your togetherness. In order for children to feel comfortable, you should not be feeling the most out of everything that makes you seem to dominate the conversation. Make it like a friend who is also need for you to listen well and sympathetically.

 7. Grow some respect Teach a man to respect whoever the person, whether an older person or peers. It is crucial to growth since early because later on as an adult he can apply respectful to everyone.

 8. Teach sense of responsibility Teach and remind your child to always have a sense of responsibility towards him. For example if the time has come to school, she had to leave. If she asks why it should be so. Give reasons that can be understood by him.

 9. Teach to apologize Apologize for a mistake is a noble act and a knight. Teach your child to want to apologize for the mistakes he might do to his peers that he was aware that the act of doing is an act that is less commendable. 

10. Do not be intimidated Parents generally tend to take a "shortcut" that easy. In addition to lying, parents are also usually often frighten children so that children want to obey immediately. This is the behavior of parents who could be mistaken for other than some sort of trauma as an adult, it also resulted in the child become independent so that they can confine their creativity. 

11. Do not be deceived Similarly, intimidated, children who often lied as a child will become accustomed to the lies instilled by his parents. When later he was great, he would consider lying is a natural thing to do because everyone including his parents did as well

. 12. Do not say loud and threatening Many people say the boy did not make any difference as a blank white paper. Whether or not the child also depends on parents taught him. That's why as much as possible try to avoid harsh words, threatening or even yell at the child. If the child's behavior may seem mischievous or naughty, try to hold back your emotions and say softly and wisely.

 13. Teach openness When you have free time together with the baby. Encourage conversation and try to find out about daily life. What did he do, what makes her happy, what makes him sad or even get her excited. With the opening of the child, you can also search to find a gap to be able to know the nature of the child at once an inspiration for parents. A good parent and a wise old man who can take the experience and lessons from anyone including his own son.