Education business is intended to create human A good personality and Islamic called the "Insan Rabbani" who believe in Allah Almighty, be cautious and do good deeds for himself, family and society in general.
Islamic education philosophy is actually very concerned about the spiritual and physical aspects, in accordance with the process of human events consisting of spirit and body.
Begins from within the womb so that he was born and became an adult human.
Childhood
Before the children are born, the mother provides a good and appropriate place to raise the child as well as possible. This means that the childhood is after the house of the mother himself.
To achieve the perfection of life and happiness of the children, the mother-father needs to create a harmonious atmosphere and characterized by Islamic life in the household.
If married couples live the Islamic values in their home life, it is easy to educate their children in an Islamic way. Conversely, if a spouse fails to apply Islamic values and perpetuates family harmony, it is difficult for them to educate children in terms of reference and the culture of Islamic life.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) reminded the husband would be to choose a candidate wife who has the sincerity and the belief of religion, not because of beauty, heredity or property solely. The words of the Messenger of Allah
"A woman is pronounced for four things, because her property, her descendants, her beauty and her religion, so choose a religion because it benefits you (above all)"
When Children In Gynecology
The process of early education applies when the baby is still in the womb of his mother. Education in this rank is more characterized by spirituality, namely:
1) For mothers who are encouraged to encourage to support reading of the Qur'an, especially surah Yusuf, Mariam, Luqman and At-Taubah.
2) Mother should always pray to Allah S.W.T so that the child who will be born will become a child who is pious, knowledgeable, faithful, cautious and noble.
3) The mother of the father should receive sustenance rather than a lawful source so that the seed that will be born will come from the blood of the lawful meat.
4) Mothers should eat a delicious meal and always keep the body of the body. Personal hygiene should be prioritized to ensure the health of children in the womb. The factor of health is emphasized by Islam so that Islam gives concessions to the pregnant mother to break her fast if she feels that fasting makes her self and her child's health happy.
5) When pregnant, the mother needs to adjust to the changes that apply to her. At this time the mother's situation is quite different from the usual time, especially for the mother who will give birth to the first child. Maybe his appetite is gone, the feeling is somewhat disturbed (sensitive) and his heart may be pounding because the baby in his womb is part of him. When these husbands should be more understanding of the wife and give a strong impetus to him
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After the Child is Born
,After the child is born, let him immediately father should read azan ( a kind of expression to bask the blessing of God Almighty ) his right ear and iqamat ( phrase to ask the bless of God ) his left ear.
Abu Rafi narrated a hadist ( Phropher words ) that intends:
"I saw the Messenger ( peace be upon him ) oblivioned Hasan Bin Ali to his ear when he was born by Fatimah r.a"
(The History of Abu Daud and Termizi)
As the first bite, the baby's circumcision is vaporized with sweets like honey and dates. Abu Musa Al Asyari r.a. In a history says:
"My wife gave birth to a child, I brought the baby to the Messenger of Allah (SAW).
He named it Abraham, then he was bribed with dates (after crushed) after which he prayed for his blessing and the baby was handed back to me".
(Bukhari and Muslim)
On the seventh day of his birth, the mother of the father was charitable by performing aqiqah ( slaughtering goat to be given to the poor as expression of thank God ). A goat for a girl and two goats for a boy. His hair was also circumcised shaved entirely so that his head was clean, his brain is clever /smart and his new hair grows fertile and healthy.
The Messenger of Allah ( Peace be upon him ) means:
"Every new born child depends on his aqiqah, let him slaughter a goat on the seventh day, named on that day and shaved his head."
(The History of Abu Daud, Termizi and Nasa)
For a mother who feeds a child, she needs to eat halal, clean, and delicious food. When nursing a child, his heart should always pray the glory of his son. When going to bed, mother sing a special song with the sentence praises Allah and his prophet like nasyid ( Islamic song ) and so on.
If the child is already good at conversing, let him get used to a good conversation such as selawat and zikir ( to remember God Almighty ) and other words that are like.
Age Rating between 5 and 7 years.
In the age range of 5-7 years, it requires a broader and more comprehensive educational technique.
The filling between spiritual and physical needs to be simultaneously expressed and balanced. Teaching and teaching techniques need to use appropriate methods because the child will usually learn (follow) based on the observation that is what is done by the individual around him, especially his family expert.
According to the Islamic view, in this ranking children are naturally exposed to the practice of writing, reading, thinking and speaking.
Reasonable education is expressed in this rank is the chapter of worship and morals. For example a newly-raised child of mumayyiz should be trained to establish a prayer. Thereafter the noble existence should be applied in the form of an amali practice such as:
1) Educate children to be obedient and civilized to their two mothers; Give them the consternation that the sacrifice of the mother against him is enormous and they need to be grateful for being a child who still has both mother. It can solidify the intimate relationship, the love affection between family experts.
2) Teach children to be obedient and civilized to teachers and older people thereof; The teacher is the person responsible for educating and delivering science when an older person is a more experienced and knowledgeable person thereof.
3) Teach children to talk or get along well; Children should be trained to speak properly, to be polite and to say good words. The child is usually so sensitive to his hearing, he is easy to follow with what he hears. Therefore, if the mother wishes to rebuke or rebuke them, let's use the most polite language instead of in a loud, rough and hard language.
4) Teach children associate with friends; Children should be advised not to boast or elevate themselves in the presence of their peers, never harming or taking away the rights of others.
5) Teach children a good eating as good character ; Impolite attitudes or attitudes such as rubbing at meals should be avoided, whereas children are trained with existing foods such as washing hands, sitting politely and praying before and after meals.
6) Teach children in good character in clothing dress; The clothing chosen should cover the nakedness and not to point to others
7) Teach good character and wake up rather than sleep; It is better to let direction , cleanse before and after waking rather than sleep.
8) Teach children come in and out, children need to be taught how to urinate / large and how to get into the basin like reading prayer, covering the head, turning direction to Mecca and so on.
Conclusion
Children are the mandate of God who needs to be educated with the best since he was small again so that when big will become a child who is pious and obedient to both his mother. They are like a white cloth and it is the mother who plays a role in cheering and describing it with the interesting colors that become the practice and the way of life of Islam.
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